Whether you try too hard to fit in or you try too hard to stand out, it is of equal consequence: you exhaust your significance.
Everything you do will not be liked. Everything you say will not be welcomed. Society will have you believe that you need to follow the crowd or be so stand offish that the crowd can help but notice you. In actuality you can do whatever the heck you want, it’s your choice.
There is no need to strive for popularity if you are going to lose your identity in the process. If life is like a box of chocolates, are those chocolates sugar free? In the end you come crashing down from those sugar highs.
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